“Finding Community: How One Dad Stepped Out of the Seats and Into a Small Group”
For Sergio, faith had always been a familiar, background presence. Raised in a Christian church, he carried a quiet belief in God, operating under the assumption that a personal faith was enough...that perhaps regular church attendance wasn’t entirely necessary.
But life has a way of shifting our perspectives. That shift came for Sergio when his children enrolled at Providence Christian School. Suddenly, the dinner table became a forum for big questions. His kids began asking about Bible stories, theology, and the intricacies of faith. Like any parent, Sergio wanted to provide meaningful answers. Recognizing that he couldn't do it alone, he knew it was time to get back into a church community.
For nearly two years, Sergio and his family consistently attended Sunday services. It was a good routine, but eventually, a restless feeling settled in. He realized that just sitting in the pews once a week felt like a plateau; he was taking in what he could, but he wasn’t truly growing. If he wanted to deepen his understanding, he needed to invest more time.
That is when the concept of "small groups" caught his attention.
Initially, the idea was deeply intimidating. In a large Sunday crowd, it’s easy to blend into the background and remain anonymous. A small group, however, meant being seen. He worried whether he knew enough or if he would be asked theological questions he couldn’t answer. Seeking a comfortable entry point, he looked for a group that aligned with his existing hobbies and comfort zone.
He found his answer in an unexpected place: the church landscaping volunteer team, which gathered every Thursday.
On many Thursdays, the weight of a busy week made the prospect of manual labor under the hot sun feel exhausting. Yet, Sergio noticed a strange paradox. Every time he pushed past the fatigue and showed up, he left feeling completely reinvigorated and filled with energy. What seemed like an obligation quickly transformed into the absolute highlight of his week.
It was during his very first Thursday that Sergio experienced a moment that stayed with him. At the end of the shift, the volunteers gathered together, linking arms and shoulders in a tight huddle. One by one, they poured out their hearts, sharing prayers of gratitude, celebrating blessings, and lifting up the burdens and struggles facing their families. It was the first time Sergio had ever experienced community prayer in such a raw, connected way.
After a year of serving with the landscaping team, a leader named Mark invited him to take another step: joining a small group focused on learning how to read the Bible. The old anxieties crept back, and Sergio worried his busy schedule might cause him to miss a few sessions. But Mark reassured him, welcoming him just as he was.
Walking into that first meeting, Sergio felt the familiar flutter of nervousness. But as the conversation flowed, he discovered a comforting truth: everyone else in the room was on a similar journey, navigating the exact same challenges and questions.
Today, Sergio views the church through a completely different lens. Stepping into community proved to be contagious. What started as a Thursday landscaping shift naturally blossomed into Bible studies, serve days, and deeper relationships.
Through his journey, Sergio learned that faith is not a solo endeavor. It requires walking alongside others. Because at the end of the day, the church isn't a building or a rigid set of religious rules...it is the people, growing and doing life together.
It is the ordinary shape of what happens here, told by one person.
If any of that sounded familiar, the next step is smaller than you think. Come on a Sunday and leave when you want to. Or find a group, which is where most of these stories actually turn.
8, 9:15, 10:45 or 12, at 7000 Rossmore Lane. Nobody will make you say anything.